Sex is usually listed as an importantif not most importantelement of a relationship. Thats why many relationship fizzle after the honeymoon phase ends. sex is not everything in a relationship but its a big part of it, and what goes on in the bedroom can say a lot about you as a couple and if it will survive the long haul. The good sex, then, would simply follow the good relationship dynamics. Its also possible that people who are more positive in general are more likely to get involved in a close relationship. in an ideal relationship, you and your partner are compatible both physically and emotionally. But if you have a lackluster sex life while everything else is great, can whats lacking physically. the relationship gets boring and static when you are both just going through the notions, there is no intimacy. Love cant ever be enough, loads of things are connected to it. Raskreddit raskreddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. the relationship isnt progressing unlike the previous signs, this one is a bit more subtle, but if you find that your relationship has seemed to stall out, salkin recommends taking a close look. Where this becomes a dangerous slippery slope, though, is when sex isnt everything in marriage drifts into sex is nothing in our marriage. We are sexually active and have been discussing our fantasiesfetishes etc. I like dominating (and being dominated) yet my girl is very very opposed to being dominated. I know sex isnt everything, and we have fun having sex, dont get me wrong, but its something i want to explore with her if possible. On the other hand, many women would say its just as important, but may be more likely to overlook the issue if everything else in the relationship is going well. Heres a simple way to sum things up men often choose a woman based upon the sex (or the prospect of it), and end up falling in love while women generally choose a man based.