Even normal-size men may suffer small-penis syndrome -- fear that their penis is too small -- and seek unproven penis-lengthening treatments. It doesnt automatically translate to a bad lover, but it does create a mountain to overcome from the very beginning. a little problem dear little, your wonderful guy was cruelly shafted, and its sad to think that a relationship that seemed to have everything may be doomed because of a teeny-weeny problem. for reference, the average erect penis is about 5 inches, according to recent research, and most penises fall within an inch or two of that, says herbenick. There are few topics that can evoke such widespread and intense anxiety as penis size. Just about every manregardless of the actual size of his penisworries about being too small. But the studies that have looked at physical characteristics like genital size compared to the emotional characteristics, like how connected people feel. my brothers friend wont stop pestering me about having a small penis and no social life, so i explain to him how i manage to get along. The size of a mans penis is an objective concern for intercourse only in the case of small penis syndrome. In fact, the average erect penis is a lot smaller than hitherto thought, and men worry. If i meet an angry man, somebody who is truly angry without a reason, i often wonder if the cause might be something as simple as small penis size. By jonas swensson if i meet an angry man, somebody who is truly angry without a reason, i often wonder if the cause might be something as simple as small penis size. I off course talk from experience of growing up with a tiny (as i discuss in my small penis size website), and i was angry about it.